Thanks for sharing the Excel file. I have been experimenting and it seems it is possible to have a double length 6 couple SAMDRR. For example:
(H1 W2 v H3 W4) (H6 W1 v H5 W3) (H2 W5 v H4 W6)
(H1 W3 v H4 W5) (H2 W1 v H6 W4) (H3 W6 v H5 W2)
(H1 W4 v H5 W6) (H3 W1 v H2 W5) (H4 W2 v H6 W3)
(H1 W5 v H6 W2) (H4 W1 v H3 W6) (H5 W3 v H2 W4)
(H1 W6 v H2 W3) (H5 W1 v H4 W2) (H6 W4 v H3 W5)
(H1 W2 v H4 W6) (H3 W1 v H5 W4) (H2 W3 v H6 W5)
(H1 W3 v H5 W2) (H4 W1 v H6 W5) (H3 W4 v H2 W6)
(H1 W4 v H6 W3) (H5 W1 v H2 W6) (H4 W5 v H3 W2)
(H1 W5 v H2 W4) (H6 W1 v H3 W2) (H5 W6 v H4 W3)
(H1 W6 v H3 W5) (H2 W1 v H4 W3) (H6 W2 v H5 W4)
Where H1W1, H2W2, H3W3,... are the spouse pairs who never meet.
From the perspective of players H1 and W1, the first 5 rounds and last 5 rounds appear to be a SAMDRR. For everyone else, there is an imbalance in the opposite sex pairs in both halves, which cancels out when all 10 rounds are considered together. For the latter players, there is always one player with who they partner twice, and one opposite sex opponent who they oppose twice, in both halves of the tournament. For example, in the first 5 rounds, H2 plays twice with W5, and plays against W6 twice. Conversely, in the last 5 rounds, H2 plays twice with W6, and plays against W5 twice.
Note that same sex opponents are balanced in each half.